Thursday, May 15, 2008

To Give or to Get?

I teach a fourth grade religious school class every Wednesday afternoon and Sunday morning. Yesterday afternoon I was in the middle of teaching and I remembered that I had not done something I promised to do. Bob Schwartz, our business development guy, had asked me to schedule a meeting with somebody he met who was interested in our company. Beth Kahn, our office administrator, schedules all of my meetings and I had forgotten to speak with Beth. So, in the middle of class I called Beth and asked her to schedule the meeting.

Why is this such a big deal?

Michigan's economy is one of the worst economies, if not the worst economy, in the nation. Many, many people are unemployed, particularly those who used to work at one of the car companies, which supported Michigan's economy for a very long time. Obviously when an industry that supports a local economy suffers, as the automobile industry has suffered, other local industries suffer as well. The individual with whom Bob wanted me to speak used to work at one of the automobile industries. (I'm not certain what he did there, but my guess is he worked on an assembly line.) After working for twenty years he decided that he wanted to pursue a lifelong dream and become a writer and speaker. First, he earned both an associates degree and a B.A. I was most intrigued after Bob showed me a book that this individual wrote. Wow!! The title of the book is "Grade Grabbers: Improve Your GPA."

I suspect that this individual is interested in a job. But, even though my schedule has gotten pretty busy, I'm eager to sit down with somebody who decided after twenty years on a job to go back and get a college degree and then wrote a book. Without even having met this individual yet, he sounds rather interesting.

So, why did I call my office in the middle of teaching? I suspected that this individual might be waiting for a phone call from my office. I know that if I was in his situation I would be anxious. My thought was why make him wait. Alleviate his anxiety. After I got off the phone, I explained to my students why I had made the phone call. I told them the old adage that if you give somebody a fish you feed them for a day but if you teach somebody to fish you give them the skills of feeding themselves for a lifetime. If this guy is as much of a go getter as he sounds, then I would have no problem in giving him a job.

In Judaism, the greatest act of charity is giving somebody a job. Yet, thinking about this fact from my chair, I'm wondering why this is the case. I don't give people jobs to be generous. (I'm simply not in that kind of a position.) Rather, I give people jobs so that they can help my company grow and be successful. Perhaps this is selfish, not charitable? Can selfishness and charity compliment one another? I'm not sure but it sounds like an interesting question, at least to me.

2 Comments:

At 12:30 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is a truly interesting question. i found your site through general research into interactive internet sites. I intend on building one of my own, i only hope it is as nice as yours. It will be more along the lines of this question than education. All of that aside, i think the question you pose is an incredible one. My life is at times very difficult for me to bare, I suffer from severe depression, the worst part of my disease is that it is so bad, i understand my life is arguably in danger. The only source of joy I have in my life is helping others. The worst part of my disease is also the best part of my life... I have a passion which is something you quickly discover few others have, or will ever have living the course they are taking their lives.

 
At 12:36 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

sorry i was cut off....

there was a warrior chieftain who took his warriors across a river to fight against his rival. once his men reached the other side he had them destroy there cooking pots and burn their canoes, he told them they would have to win or die, there was no escape. i strongly identify with this old story, luckily the warrior chieftain and his men won because it is the story of my life. the only hope for my survival. it is not selfish to better your lot, it is selfish to do so while forsaking others... my life is bound by the fact that i was born into this world. i take account of my life and make every movement one to help the worst off i have ever met. Gandhi said when in doubt you should remember the face of the most destitute person you have ever seen and ask yourself "is what i am doing going to better their lives?" even if not directly will your actions, to grow your company or survive the trials of a hard life help that person. when GE gives someone a job i assure you it is not in the same vein as when you give or gave that man his job or his opportunity. you sound like a good man. no selfishness is not connected to charity, they do not go hand in hand. bettering our lives does though. i hope thats true.

 

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